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When you thing of being possessed, what do you think of?

Do you think about Linda Blaire in the Exorcist vomiting green pea soup with white contact lenses and her head spinning around? Do you think of her speaking the most horrible, blasphemous obscenities in a man’s voice?

We’re all possessed. We belong to God, or we live in sin and are possessed by Satan. We’re possessed by the lover of our souls who gave us life and all blessings and everything good, or we are possessed by the one who wants to take our soul to hell and will accommodate us with any comforts and conveniences necessary to make sure that happens.

Our lord is the one we love, trust, and obey. Who are you loving, trusting, and obeying right now? Did someone just get your obedience away from Jesus Christ? Did you give yourself to another to be possessed?

You are making that choice right now. Is that your final answer?

How to Catch a Cheating Spouse

If your spouse is cheating on you, it may be best to find out early so you can deal with it.

A high percentage of divorces begin with the Internet — Internet affairs, Internet pornography, sexual addictions and such that lead to a rendezvous. And it may be best to catch this problem and deal with it fast rather than let it go on.

Loss of Intimacy

No person can have a truly intimate relationship when there are secrets and lies covering unfaithfulness of any kind.  The first loss that takes place is the loss of integrity, character, and salvation, and with it comes the loss of intimacy.  No longer is there openness between you and your spouse.  Just a charade.  A facade.  A cover up.

Disease

Sexual activity outside marriage can lead to disease and death and leave children orphaned.  AIDS, Hepatitis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, HPV, PID, Syphilis, Chlamydia, Trichomoniasis, Bacterial Vaginosis, and such could leave you forced to take painful medical procedures regularly for life.

Betrayal and Family Destruction

Living in denial not only endangers us to the possibility of serious disease and death, but also gives the unfaithful and their partners ample time to plan a betrayal, a divorce, a destruction of the family in a way that limits their losses and maximizes your losses and the losses of your children.

Often, affair partners plot to justify and excuse their sin, and if it looks like they may be in trouble, they will prepare together for war long before you are aware and able to prepare.  Chances are you will be hit hard and unexpectedly by two people ganging up on you when you are at your weakest point overwhelmed with pain and heartbreak, worried for your children, desperate to save the marriage, and more inclined to beg and plead than to hold your spouse accountable and come down hard as you should.

In Michigan, a law was uncovered that could cause the unfaithful to be charged with a first degree felony that could land them in prison with a life sentence.  It seems that this law has not yet been applied, but if it were, it might bring sufficient intimidation and discomfort to the guilty parties to cause them to beg to take responsibility in some other way.

It may be very hard to come down hard on one’s unfaithful spouse.  When we took the vows, we promised to love faithfully, and our feelings are usually soft toward our spouse.  Unfaithful spouses usually take advantage of this.  If they did not feel save to commit adultery or to abandon one relationship for another, they would never do so.  Adultery is the ultimate expression of cowardice, and it is shown well in the way the unfaithful brutalize the family and the children an the abandoned spouse heartlessly and demand to be “forgiven”, approved, validated, sheltered, and rewarded for doing so.

Break Free From the Affair is a download-able book that can help you gain victory if your spouse is unfaithful.  It can help save your marriage if possible and make sure affairs don’t happen again.

Anatomy of an Affair is also a good e-book for learning why affairs happen, how they take place, their signs, and how to save the marriage or end it in your favor as much as possible should the marriage not be savable.

End Your Internet Sex Site Addiction

This site is not about being a prude or being judgmental or restrictive or pedantic or anything of the sort.  Many people who suffer from porn addictions or sex addictions know first hand how this horrible sin can consume and enslave someone.

Christians who are spiritually aware of the spiritual consequences know that such a shameful habit can be exposed in a second, and for those who believe in angels and demons, many people are well aware that no secret can be counted on to stay that way, so people should not be doing anything they would not want God or their children our their spouses or their employers or their parents to know about.

Many people live with this shame in fear of exposure.  Every demon in hell enjoys this because it provides them an advantage in getting people to lie, to cover up, and to live in addiction under extortion with a perpetual desire to come clean but without the freedom to do so.

One famous hotel chain stated that pay per views for pornographic videos increases dramatically during pastors conferences, so pastors are not always free from this sin either.

Yet, this sin can break up a family, destroy a church, cause people to lose their jobs, lose their respect before their children, and make it impossible for anyone to take the Gospel of Jesus Christ that Jesus died for seriously when those who promote it are seen as perverts.

Furthermore, with all the tragic cases of child molesting and child pornography happening within the church, it is important to realize that people caught committing these crimes almost always have a porn or sex addiction.

So, this is a serious problem, and it is important not to let it go unaddressed.

End Your Internet Sex Site Addiction

Why would a middle aged man create a web site with this name?  Am I creating a web site for women or young girls?

Well, a few years ago, my daughter wanted to create a web site for young girls her age called girlzonly.com.  For parity, I thought it might be nice to purchase the boyzonly.com domain as well so a web site could be created for boys to share things of common interest as well — video games, online games, whatever.

However, I found the domain was already owned and the material was more than inappropriate, so I did not want to use this domain to draw young girls to a place where they may get curious about boyzonly and get an eyefull.

A few years ago, some pornographers stole one of my web sites and used my name to draw traffic, and so I thought this would be an opportunity to play a trick on those searching for pornography and create a flash program that would make it appear that they were being traced and reported to their employer and people on their email address book, and then ask them whether they were glad this was merely a prank?  Then the site offered them some resources to help them break free from bondage to this sin.